Phone Sex Show #067: He Fucked Around And Found Out

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Find us on the web Welcome back to the Phone Sex Show. You’re here with Mari and Mia. Hi, Mia.

Hi, Mari.

You’re sipping an Alani over there.

I am, and I just about choked on it.

I love Alani so much. I need to put some more Alani on my throne gift list because I love getting cases of Alani sent to me by good boys. Uh, but Mia, have you thought of— you did— you— your eyes just did a thing like you’re like, fuck yeah, I need to do that, right?

Well, yeah, because I was just thinking I do a lot on Amazon and I was like, oh, why didn’t I think of ordering it from Amazon?

You can go to, you can go to your Throne wishlist and put an Amazon link on it. You know that, right?

Um, I did not know that.

So you go to Amazon and you get the link to the product that you want and you come back to Throne and you say, you click on the add to my wishlist and then there’s a spot for entering an Amazon link.

So doing that right now.

Yeah, so you can choose specific things that you would love to have good boys gift you. That— yeah, fuck yeah. Um, so okay, just so you know, guys, both, both of us love Alani. Alani is the drink of goddesses everywhere, I think. But in this episode of Phone Sex Show, I want to talk about a little fucking asshat who misbehaved badly.

Oh yeah.

He fucked around and he found out. That’s what we’re talking about today. So guys, most of you are an absolute fucking delight, especially the submissive good boys. I do occasionally respond well to switch energy, very occasionally, and only when it comes from a very organic spot for both of us. But I have a caller on the Night Flirt platform. Um, he wanted to be a good boy. He was a good boy for several calls. He was a very Good boy.

And we had some fun kinky calls. They were good. But here’s the thing, there’s fantasy and then there’s reality. And sometimes I think that there are good boys out there who don’t understand Dominance is not a facade for me. Dominance is not a persona that I’m putting on like a bathrobe. I am that bossy bitch. That’s how I ended up in this work, is that a friend said you’d be really good at this. Because I know what I want.

I do what I want.

And dominance is just so natural for you.

More and more every day, the more that I embrace it, to be honest. But I know it, guys. I know it. Some of you love that I am dominant through and through, that I am that bitch, that I am that intimate, nurturing, wonderful dummy mommy, that I embody that energy, that you’re relating to me in a very real way. But some of you all treat every call like it’s pure fantasy and It’s a mistake if you think that this is just a role for me. So here’s the experience that I had with this not-so-good boy. We had a, we had a couple of really good calls, really good, deep, nasty calls. And then he showed up in my space and started to boss me around, like, do it like this, do it like that.

And I laughed and said, oh, did you think— you did not just roll up to the Burger King, like, like takeout. You do not get to order it your way. You get what you get. And no, we’re not playing like that. I’m not doing that. That doesn’t sound fun at all. He’s like, but you work for me. And I just laughed my ass off and hung up.

Because this is not the first time, Mia. Both of us have had that experience of some guy going, you work for me, I’m paying, you do what I—

Whether even from a domination and submission point of view, they’re like, dominate me the way I want you to dominate me. And I laughed, like gut laughed, and hung up. And, um, he messaged me and he’s like, we got disconnected.

No, we didn’t. I fucking hung up on you. Yeah.

Um, he said Oh, oh, oh, oh, I just remembered something. Okay, um, all right, well, he called back. The phone— the line connected. I laughed again, hung up again.

Fucking love it. Oh my God.

And, um, by the way, one of the things— what’s What started it, what started the conflict between us, is that, um, there’s two— there’s, there’s a conflicting sensation around feedback on Night Flirt. On one hand, no one is required to leave feedback for, for anything. You can just ignore the feedback. But I specifically told him to go leave me feedback from a dominant perspective. I made that demand. He did not do it. And, and he’s like, whatever, maybe I’ll do it next time. And I’m like, fuck you.

Either you are in submission to me or you’re not. This is my choice. It is your choice whether or not you leave feedback, but if I’ve demanded it, Mm-hmm. And you’ve declined, we are no longer in a dominant position. So I’m not, I’m not having fun the minute that you refuse to do what I told you to do. I do not often make it that big of a deal.

Mm-hmm.

I, I prefer to say, don’t forget to leave me some sweet feedback, baby. Don’t forget to worship me. Good feedback makes my pussy wet. Most men love to serve me that way.

Yeah.

But this guy, he got his post-nut clarity and he didn’t think about doing it, and I chewed him out for it. He was like, oh, okay, whatever. He fucked around and found out that that, plus trying to be bossy with me when I didn’t give you permission Gets you cut the fuck off. That felt good to me. I love defending my boundaries. So laughing and hanging up on him twice made me giggle. And, uh, guess what?

He left nasty feedback.

He did. He did. He ran to say, um, first of all, he left feedback for that previous call that he hadn’t left feedback for yet.

Mm-hmm.

Quote, never again. 1 star. But then another 1 star for the call that we just had where I laughed and hung up on him. He says, one star, don’t waste your time. I laughed. I sent him a message and I said, you know, did that, did that, um, did that feel good? Did that make your dick hard or something like that? But he’d already blocked me, so the message didn’t go through. And I just— I laughed. I rolled my eyes.

I am not worried about the 1-star feedback.

Yeah.

Every man who reads feedback there gets it. They see the hundreds of 5-star glowing items, and then they see— the funny thing is that he says never again, but then his own feedback shows he called back 5 days later.

Yeah, exactly.

The fuck? Like, everybody knows that you got your little feelings hurt.

Yep.

That your butt hurt to the extreme, that you didn’t get your fucking way.

And now you’re leaving bad feedback. Yeah. In a way, I think it works for me. I don’t think that those 1 stars hurt me.

Yeah.

I think they help me. In fact, one of my regulars messaged me on chat when they noticed that and said, oh, somebody got their feelings hurt. And I said, yep, yep. And they’re like, don’t feel bad. Don’t feel bad.

It’s hilarious.

I didn’t feel bad at all. But here, okay, so, so here’s the— go ahead, go ahead. You were going to say something.

Well, I was just gonna say, I think it’s hilarious that your regulars know you so well that one of them sees that 1-star feedback and they knew instantly that that person got their feelings hurt and that’s why they left the fucking 1-star review. Yeah.

Like, it didn’t—

like you said, it didn’t hurt you. It worked in your favor.

Yeah.

The, you know, guys, feedback is left. I mean, if, if I do the math, feedback is left less than 10% of the time.

Even—

Yeah.

For some reason, it’s hard to get feedback for me. Like, I have specifically asked several callers and they just do not leave feedback.

Well, there, there’s a caller I had early on in the first few months that he was calling late at night and he was on the phone with me financially domination, fin-dom oriented slow drain whisper type call. And he— we were having such a great time, and he was just like so, um, he was just— he just worshiped me. You’re worth it. You’re everything. You deserve it all. You know, I love you, my goddess. And, and so when we got on a call, I said, you know, let’s see some of those words in feedback. I want to see that in writing.

And he said, Oh, I don’t do feedback, goddess. And something happened for me in that moment. This is, this is early. This is probably like the first 2 months of taking spicy calls.

Mm-hmm.

I’m still figuring myself out. I’m still growing into my natural dominance in a sensual space. But what I noticed was when he said, oh, I don’t leave feedback, goddess, my pussy dried up.

Yeah.

And I was done talking to him. I said, oh, that’s, that’s sad. And he’s like, I love you though, I love you, drain me. And I’m like, nah. And I hung up. Now, men, when I hung up on the loser a week or so ago, I did it with a laugh. When I hung up on that guy, I hung up with angsty feelings, like I just hung up on someone who is joyfully paying $3 a minute to talk to me. Um, and I, I feel like it was the right thing to do.

Mhm.

Because I just do. Like, it was an instinct, instinct feeling of, oh, I don’t want to talk to this guy anymore.

Right.

I know a lot of men are thinking, are you fucking nuts, Mari? You know, if I don’t want to leave feedback, I don’t want to leave feedback. Let me pay you. Sometimes that is how I respond. Sometimes, yeah, sometimes I really don’t give a fuck about the feedback. But in that, there was something about the way he said that felt so fake.

Mm-hmm.

Felt so incongruent with the dynamic of I love you, I worship you. Drain me. I’ll do anything. Oh, but I won’t do that, right? Fuck you. Take— I don’t need your money, bitch. That’s the energy that welled up in me. I don’t need your money. Someone else will call and pay me and leave feedback if I ask.

And happily leave feedback. Yep.

But Back to only about 10% leave feedback. So obviously I don’t fuck around and get pissed about everyone who doesn’t leave feedback. It’s very individual. It’s very in the moment. Sometimes it bothers me, sometimes it doesn’t bother me. Sometimes I bother myself with it, sometimes I don’t.

Right.

But, but, okay, okay, okay. Um, this guy blocked me. Okay, remember he left 2 1-star feedback and blocked me. I’m like, aha, 2, you know, good luck, have fun. Like, I don’t give a fuck. I’m not gonna think about this guy again.

Until he comes crawling back.

Until he comes back. Um, he’s on, on September 3rd, he’s like, hello, in chat. I respond instantly. See you, human contact. I’m like, seriously? He says, LOL, I’m a beta, that’s what we do. I’m like, what? Leaving— leave petty feedback when you don’t get your way? That’s not Beta. That’s bratty.

Yeah.

He says, sorry, ellipsis. I said, why are you back? He says, because you’re the best.

Of course.

I said, oh really? And raised my chat rate. From $1.49 to $2.99. And then I— then he didn’t respond because, you know, they get a notification that you’ve raised your chat rate.

Yeah.

And so like an hour later, I was getting ready to log off and I just checked back and I said, shouldn’t you just block me again?

And I—

and I logged out. Well, then he comes back, pays the $2.99, and says, ready? Question mark. I say, for what? No. So I earned my $3 for saying, for what? And then I’m logged out, so he can’t call me. I’m— I— he doesn’t respond to me again. Well, he comes back. On, um, Tuesday this morning, he comes back. He said, I need a phone call session, please.

Can you do it in the next few minutes? Now his rate is still $2.99 a minute, $2.99 per chat. I said, ah, I love it when you say please. He says, okay. That cost him $3. I said, say it again. He says, please. That cost him $3. He’s like, I got a meeting in a few.

I said, I am so pleased with you. That cost him $3. He said, thank you. When will your line be on? And I said, it’s— it is on, silly boy. That cost him $3. I am giggling because he’s paying $3. And I know I have answered—

For you to fuck with him.

Zero fucking intention of ever answering his phone call again.

Yeah.

Never gonna talk to me again, motherfucker. Never gonna talk to me again.

He’s like—

That’s hilarious.

But the funny thing is that my ignore line is on, and he’s like, no, it says this. I said, you’re looking in the wrong place. And I think at that point he probably noticed. That only an ignore line was turned on. But yeah, I—

So fun.

It’s the— it’s the little things sometimes, gentlemen. It’s the little things that tickle me so much. He fucked around and found out that I am not a switch.

Okay.

I am the one in charge. And yeah, you’re in charge of whether you send the chat, you’re in charge of whether you make the call, you’re in charge of whether you leave the feedback, send the tribute, do any of the things that I want you to do. You get to decide that. But no decision you make makes me do something I don’t want to do ever. And he paid $3 per message to get fucked with.

Fucked with. Yep.

This morning. And I am never gonna talk to him on the phone again. If he wants to call my ignore line and bitch me out, I will sit here And take his money and do something else. Yeah, I will ignore him, but I will not answer any other calls, and I fully expect him to get back around to blocking me. We’ll see. Or, or I know it’s likely that he’ll just create another account and try to sneak back.

Yeah, I was just gonna say, we don’t know each other. But he’s gonna probably do that because they do that.

They do that. But yeah, that, that’s the funny, funny story about feedback today.

How funny that it just cracks me up that he had his feelings hurt, left the shitty fucking review not once but twice, and he still came back for more. Like, okay, what the fuck, dude? Well, you didn’t get your feelings hurt enough the first time around, you got to come back for more? Okay, I’ll take your money and fuck with you, not a problem.

Yes. And, and here, guys, I would rather give you a great experience. Yes, I would rather us be on the same page. You ask for what you want. If I want to give it, I give it. If I don’t want to give you what you want, I’m going to give you a graceful decline and say, that’s not me. I can recommend someone, you know, um, but that’s not me. And that happens way more than this petty bullshit.

Yeah.

It’s far more—

yeah, this is definitely not the norm.

Yeah, far more common for someone to say, oh my God, I’m feeling some kind of way, can we do this other thing? And, and I, and I say, oh, that’s not my vibe, baby, that, that you’re not going to enjoy that with me. I wouldn’t enjoy that with you. They either say, okay, I get it, bye baby, or they say, okay, what do you want to do? Like, either way is fine. If you want to flip the dom and fuck my face, I’m not gonna shame you for it. But if I’m not in the mood, if it didn’t hit me just right, it is not gonna fucking happen. But I know someone who would love it, you know, so I’ll make a recommendation. But yeah, nothing wrong with asking for what you want. Ever.

Yeah.

And I mean that from the bottom of my heart. I am not offended by any kinky taboo requests. I’m just gonna say yes or no.

Well, it makes it so much easier too if they ask for what they want.

Yeah, it does. Thanks for spending some time with us, guys. And, and if you want to spend some time with either one of us one-on-one, Come ask for what you want, baby. You never know what you’ll get. Mia, thank you for this.

Bye, Mari. Bye, gentlemen.

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