Phone Sex Show #065: Loyalty & Faithfulness

Phone Sex Show Episode #65 Transcript

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Welcome in, you’re listening to Phone Sex Show, episode number 65. You’re here with Mari and Mia. Hello, Mia. Hello, Mari. I want to talk about loyalty, faithfulness to your Domme.

Such a good topic.

Right this minute, I am chatting with somebody who is, um, Feeling drawn to, to be exclusive to me. This is not a demand that I often make of anyone. I’m a dominant. I love to make you my pet. I invite you to be faithful and devoted to me, of course, because that’s what’s going to give you a sense of ownership and A deep beta craves to be owned. Um, but, but I don’t— I’m not awake 24/7. There’s all kinds of time zones.

Someone wakes up feeling subby and horny at 3 o’clock Eastern Standard Time. In the 3 AM, I’m asleep, baby. Um, you need to be dominated if you’re my pet. You’re probably not my pet because if you’re up at 3 AM and I’m not, we didn’t meet. Um, but I don’t have— I don’t bother myself with the idea that someone touched themselves with another Domme. Does that make sense?

Yes.

Unless we have negotiated an exclusivity where I have demanded that you not talk to anyone else, I’m not over here getting my little feelings hurt that you gooned to someone else’s titties. I promise you that. Um, but sometimes that’s the dynamic that turns you on most, that I am possessive and demanding, jealous and punishing if you talk to someone else. And if I’m good at reading you and I’ve picked that up on you, then hell yeah.

Yeah.

I’m gonna lay down the law. That is my cock. That is my cum. Grab those balls and give them a firm squeeze. Write Mari on your inner thigh until you have a chance to get a tattoo.

Ooh.

Because you’re my bitch. Some of you listening are like, oh my God, your cock just sprung to life. And some of you are like, yeah, that’s not me. I just need some big soft titties to goon to. Like, I’ll see Mari, I’ll see Mia, I’ll see whoever’s available. You do you, babe.

There’s such a variety of submissive men out there. And, uh, it’s all about our communication. But I’m chatting with a guy right now who’s really into the idea that I have been programming him to be utterly devoted to me, that I have been mindfucking him into blocking other providers. Um, and, and so he’s like, I just blocked someone else, Goddess. I said, good boy. And then he asked, he’s like, what if I had a girlfriend? I said, well, do you? He says, I don’t, but what if I did? I said, I would tell you to break up. Now, would I really tell someone to break up with their girlfriend? Now that, that’s a whole nother story. I have told some guys to break up with their girlfriends because they’re in, they’re in terrible, sexless, vanilla relationships that will never satisfy them.

And they’re not married. So get the fuck out and go find yourself a Dom. Okay, I got distracted, but, but yeah, he’s really turned on by this obsessive possessive vibe. If that’s what you need, oh my God, can I create it? Hell yes, I will. I will fuck you. I will mindfuck you to the nth degree until that girl at work you’ve always had a crush on finally asks you out and all you can think about was me and you say no. That girl from high school who you masturbated about gets a divorce. You run into her in the grocery store, she flirts with you, and all you can think about is me.

And so you don’t take her phone number. That’s the level of mindfucking I will take you to if that’s what you need. Because faithfulness matters to a deep beta. Loyalty, ownership, faithfulness matters to a deep, weak, pathetic beta. That sense of, I can’t let Mari down, is going to drive you to reject everyone else. Mia, Mia, you have, you have, you’ve got, you’ve got faithful clients, not deep, weak betas, but you’ve got very faithful clients. How important is it to you that— Oh, my God. A client be faithful to you? Like, is that a turn-on to know that you’re the only one that they’re for?

Yes. And it’s also partially ego-driven because I’m like, fuck yeah, they like me that much that they don’t wanna spend time with anybody else.

Yeah. That’s not about you being dominant. That’s just about you, like, just as a woman, man.

Like, damn.

Yeah.

Yeah. Oh, shit. I just lost my train of thought. Oh, I was going to say the loyalty too. I know it, like you said when we were recording an episode for the other podcast, that it creates this connection. So it gives me—

Like, I want to do something for the loyal ones that I don’t just do for everybody else. So I’ve got a couple loyal ones that have seen my masked face. Nobody else gets to see my masked face.

Loyalty and faithfulness matters. To me as a dominant when I know that it turns you on too. It’s very much about our energies aligning because there’s a lot of men, a lot of regulars who are faithful to me, who prefer me over others. But it’s not about being a weak, pathetic beta bitch. It’s just about We know each other, we get each other’s vibes, we know each other’s fantasies, we, we trust each other, um, we vibe well in role play, or we vibe well in just sharing our erotic fantasies. That faithfulness really matters because there’s a comfort level that builds. If I have— I have men, I have a client Ooh, he’s— oh, I adore him. He’s not extremely subby.

He’s actually quite dominant. But we have an agreement that we share dominance in fantasies and dominate another woman.

I love that.

It’s, it’s— we had to design it. We had to carefully design it. And we’ve got a great vibe together. Um, and because we have communicated a lot, built a lot of, of, um, understanding, when he’s in a hurry, we can do a quickie.

Mm-hmm.

And jump right into it, go deep, have, have a great Fucking orgasm and be like, bye, like 10 minutes later, 7 minutes later, whatever, however much time he squeezed out. But we couldn’t do that if we hadn’t had many long calls. That faithfulness— he doesn’t want to talk to anyone else because he doesn’t want to start from scratch with, here’s my thing, right? That That loyalty, that faithfulness is important to him, and it is important to me. It’s not about being a weak beta bitch. Um, but, but then I have my weak beta bitch boys that, that their loyalty and their faithfulness is based on— they know that I will have their Ass if I find out that they’ve been fucking with someone else that I didn’t expressly give them permission to.

Mm-hmm.

I love to send a beta over to Mia to show off, or Shannon, or some other person that I just think would be perfect for them. When I say, you’re my bitch, you have pleased me so well, I want you to go spend 15 minutes with Mia, go make her come. Or go tell her how you served me blow by blow. Like, I’ll give a specific instruction, but if I find out that one of my betas is like, I’m, you know, um, let’s— so if you’re my beta bitch, if you’re like, I— you own me, I’m collared by you, I’m locked up by you, I promise you I’m not going to do anything else, and then I see you’re— you leaving feedback on some other Domme’s profile this week.

Bruh, bruh, you just fucked up. I’m gonna have your— I’m gonna fillet you alive. And you know, sometimes that’s a brat’s dream come true. They love to be punished later. Hey, that’s fine. But you know what I mean? Loyalty and faithfulness has different flavors and different reasons. And I’m down with all of them. I’m down with all of them.

Oh, what about— what if we flip this? Have you ever had a client that wishes you would be loyal and faithful to them? Like, they want you to— like, have you ever had a client go, I wish you wouldn’t talk to anyone but me?

Yes. Yeah. Yes.

What would it take for someone to get that from you?

A lot of money.

Yeah, that’s a great question. Mia, how many dollars would a, would a man have to pay you to get exclusivity? You’re not talking, texting, or camming with anyone else for an entire week. What would the dollar amount be?

I— a, a number immediately popped into my head, but I’m like, well, that’s fucking crazy. You can’t even spit that number out.

Spit it out.

$5,000.

How much?

$5,000.

$5,000 earns them a week of exclusivity.

Oh, I thought we were talking about a month.

Yeah, $5,000 for a month, that sounds great.

For a week, $1,000.

Okay, see, I think it’s really good to have that number in mind. My number— if someone was like, I don’t want you sexting, calling, hamming, logging into Night Flirt, Doing anything for anyone else for an entire month, they’d have to do 15 grand because that would have— that would top what I’ve been able to earn in a month.

Mhm.

Doing what I want with whoever I want. 15 grand just to be exclusive. Then, then, then heck yeah. You can officially think of me as your sugar goddess, you know, for, for 30 days. I’ll, I’ll tell everyone else I’m on vacation. I, I am 100% focused on this pet. That’d be, that’d be hot.

That would be fun. Oh my gosh.

Yes. Can you imagine? I mean, I build some incredibly intense connections with men. I would say right now there are 3 men who— one has done about 3 grand in the last month, one has done— Oh, Like, well, like $5,000 in 2 months. Then there’s another one who’s probably done about $1,500 this month. We’re spending a lot of time together.

Nice.

Um, we are, you know, and I guarantee that each one of them feels like they are the only person in my world without the promise or request of it. That’s the bubble I build around our relationship.

Mhm.

Men, listen, both Mia and I have— excuse me— heightened ability to create intimacy because, because we’ve created an intimacy with ourselves that we’re capable of sharing with you. Now, the fact that I can say that there are 3 men who probably feel like I’m— that they’re the only man I ever talk to— not— I’m not lying to them about that. I don’t say that, but they— that’s the sensation. Our sessions are deeply intimate. deeply connected, growing in intimacy. The fact that I can do that with 3 men is amazing. I can’t do that with 10 men. Not enough hours in the day.

I can do that with 3 men. I could probably do that with 4, you know. Um, but if you want that If you want to feel a sense of faithfulness and loyalty, we can do that. We understand the assignment. Do you?

Now you know $1,000 will, will get you Mia’s utter devotion for a week. $5,000 for a month. $15,000 for a month with me. We’ll get Mia there. We’ll get Mia up there. We’ll get those dollars up for Mia. But, but dudes, bros, men, little beta bitches, come on, bring it. Bring that loyalty.

Bring that faithfulness. Ask for it. I want you to reach out to one of us because you resonate with one of us. Reach out and say, I crave that faithfulness. I crave that bubble of intensity with you. Let’s make it happen. And, and if you’re listening and you’re like, man, I don’t got $1,000 to spend this week, I can’t spend that kind of money. That’s, that’s a big dollar goal.

That would get you some very intense undivided attention, but it’s not required to build intensity. Some of the, you know, this— but if you’ve got a few hundred dollars a week to spend on one-on-one sessions, we’re gonna make you feel so fucking good. We’re gonna get down there and tickle those balls and stiffen that dick and make you lose your goddamn mind. I promise.

And we’ll feel good too. I promise you we’ll feel good too. All right, Mia, thank you for spending time with me. Of course, guys. Show notes are on the web at phonesexshow.com. This again, this was episode number 65. See you soon. Bye, guys.

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